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Subject: returning after previously overstaying
  I am 17 and i just went to canada from the UK, to visit my girlfriend, however, upon arrival in st Johns (i then flew on from there to halifax)
i was questioned a lot due to the fact i only had one bacg and they gave me this wierd stamp that said 20th of february (i came for a week and the 20th was 12 days from the date i arrived)
i went and saw my girlfriend, and there were some problems because she saw me behind her parents back and when they found out she wnast where she said she was they called the police and due to the police questioning me and her i missed my bus to halifax airport and then the flight home.
Then my girlfriend left home and after a lot of deciding what to do, with my mothers help backj in england, we got some money together and got her a passport and we wnet to the britoish consulate in dartmouth and the consul guy reckoned my overstay was NOT a problem, and eventually me and my girlfriend flew back to england with her on a four month stay there, however due to the interference of a canadian police officer who used his personal time to track us and stuff, she was deported 5 hours after landing in heathrow airport.
I had overstayed by about 3 weeks and 2 days.
i have now sorted things with her parents, and they said it may be possible for her to fly to the UK for 2 weeks for a vacation, then me to fly back with her to canada for a couple of months.
can someone tell me if this is possible, becuase her parents have said they will take care of me and arrange food accomodation etc.

will my overstay and the fact that i visited canada only about 4-6 weeks before be a problem?
will me stayign for a couple of months be a problem? even though i will be met at the airport etc.
and totally taken care of.

will this be a problem?

[23-03-2006,08:10]
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Mike
(in reply to: returning after previously overstaying)
why did you not leave Canada after police questioning? I mean why wait two to three weeks later in order to fly out if your passport stamp only had a short life. I am sure the missed flight could be sorted out if you were being questioned by the police and if they have records of that - as to the extra weeks you stayed there I am not too sure. As to your girlfriend being deported from the UK something suspect must be going on - like how old is she?
[23-03-2006,09:59]
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now me
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we are both 17, see she left home and i could NOT abandon her, and i had no communication with my mother until i figured out how to ring her as i had some problems.
they deported her because they were NOT satisfied that she could support herself for the durationm of her stay.
However we now have both my parents support and her parents support, and they said about me comign back to canada and staying with them while my GF finishes high school.

yes we originally flew to the UK without her parents consent, but the people at the passport office told us it has nothing to do with her parents.

We are just teo teenagers in love that cannot bare to be seperated, and we are just now tryign to do the RIGHT thing, however neither of us can face the hell of waiting 9 months until we are both 18.

[23-03-2006,10:04]
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Mike
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she is actually 2 weeks older than me.
[23-03-2006,10:04]
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Mike
(in reply to: returning after previously overstaying)
Hey I know all too well what it´s like being apart - I had to do it for two years - and yes sometimes it´s very tempting to think with our hearts rather than our heads. You may have heard the old sayng ´if it´s ment to be it will be´ this is very true. You have only both turned 17 - try and think of both your futures for you cannot live on love alone no matter how romantic the notion. You may be better having short breaks in the UK and Canada for visitation - make sure you get a letter from each others parents inviting the other one and stipulating that they will provide for your financial security whilst you are visiting - normally it is a good idea for the parents to get a letter from their employed stating how much they earn - a touchy subject I know.
Make sure you keep everything - plane tickets, e-mails, telephone bills and photographs etc etc so that one day you will have all the information to hand to show CIC that you were both committed to each other, as you will both have a little explaining to do on any subsequent forms for PR regarding the trouble you both found yourselves in from your post.
Just think of the long term together, not the short term apart. besides without a good job and x amount of experience SW would be hard and take about 3 years. If you went under family your gf would have to be 18yrs anyway.
Like I say use your time wisely, let your gf finish school in Canada so that she may get a good job and also see to yourself, build up skills etc. Good luck to you both!

[23-03-2006,10:23]
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now me
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thanks.
[23-03-2006,10:28]
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Mike
(in reply to: returning after previously overstaying)
i wish to return to canada in a few weeks time, just for a week so i can chat with my gf and her family and sort things out for the future (cannot be done over the phone).
especially seeming as she is pregnant and she wishes to see me before she makes a decision.

I wish to return to canada however i am scared they will not let me in to the coutnry even for a week after i previouslyt poverstayed and beign under 18 causes problems, but my mum cannot fly out with me, and i dont know WHAT to do!
i did it before, i was shocked they let me throguh because they hassled me for an hour at immigration control, then i was like well ring my mum up and she will confirm everything, and they didnt even bother, but maybe now they will wnat a consent letter, and only one of my parents (my mum) will give me consent, my father thinks i am not really in love and that i am a waste of money.
Will i need a letter of consent? i didnt before.
and will one parents signature be enough?

[24-03-2006,05:32]
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mike
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your both still only kids! You think you know what real love is but I doubt you do! I just think your way to young and immigration will continue to give you a hard time until your both least 19!
[26-03-2006,05:09]
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Anonymous
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i know what true love is, and what i have is true love.
Plus she is pregnant, thats why im trying to find out.
we need a face to face chat in one of the two countries,
to decide some stuff.

[26-03-2006,12:53]
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