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Hi,
My husband went to Canada in June 2006, and unknown to me, met a girl in August 2006 whom he lived together in June 2007. My husband´s refugee visa application was denied in Sept. 2007 and he was asked to leave Vancouver in October 2007. He went back to our country but didn´t come back to our house. He´s planning to go back to Canada as a sponsor husband of that girl. Right now, that girl is waiting for the release of her PR card. In short, he abandoned me without giving me a chance to know what happened. All he said is he got the girl pregnant and he has to take responsibility. One more thing, getting that girl pregnant is a big question for me because in our 14 years as a couple, he never got me pregnant and my O.B. can´t find problems in me. he was operated on bilateral undescended testis 2 years after we got married, but only 1 testis came down.
My question is: can the girl really claim him as her sponsor husband? can they be considered as a couple eventhough they lived together for only 4 months? will canada check on the validity of their claim that he got her pregnant? as of today, my husband and I are still legally married and I have no intention of ending the marriage. And the girl is also legally married to someone else here in our country. What can i do to put an end to their evil plans? Please help me.
Thank you.
[27-03-2008,07:29]
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Mesh |
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(in reply to: Sponsoring a Husband)
just according to what i heard.somewhat like similar case.
there was a PR waiting applicant (in canada) too and sponsoring his husband (who was in other country).
but, unknown to the PR applicant, his husband had another affair. while still on processing, and requiring documents, this PR applicant found out that his husband has been filed a case by that girl / affair. This PR applicant had no choice but to divorce the husband because of NBI/FBI recently recorded to his husbands, bec that would cause a long long delay or even denial to the PR applicant.
And as far as i know, sponsoring a spouse requires, CENOMAR...(certificate of no marriage). if that woman is trying to sponsor your husband as her husband, your husband will be required to submit a CENOMAR...
or: you yourself may file a case to your husband to interfere his papers...
i understand how you feel inspite of his infidelity....i also am a woman...
what country are u from???
[27-03-2008,10:09]
[**.250.103.15]
vengeance |
(in reply to: Sponsoring a Husband)
pregnancy does not guarantee sponsorship. marriage or 1 year common law is the criteria. I am assuming marriage is not possible as he must declare he is currently married to you. Regardless, he would be required to provide the CENOMAR.
to make matters worse, they will seriously question the relationship being genuine for immigration purposes after his refugee application was denied.
All that said- as a woman who has been betrayed and has lived with the pain of divorce - honey... let him go. Why would you wish to hang on to a man that would treat you in this way. Living alone and you have been doing so already) is not nearly as hard as living with a liar and a cheat.
Why would you want to keep him... revenge will not hurt him one iota... it will only destroy YOU.
[27-03-2008,14:32]
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Sharon |
Sponsoring a Husband (in reply to: Sponsoring a Husband)
Thank you Ms.Vengeance. I´m from the Philippines. Right now, I´m torn between totally letting go of him and avenging myself for the emotional tortures they´ve given me.
Thank you too, Ms.Sharon. Actualy, I already prepared a complaint letter against him, but haven´t found the courage to submit it to the Canadian Embassy here in the Philippines. That letter focuses on his misrepresentation for applying as a refugee, when he is just running away from his credit card bills at that time. Until now, he hasn´t settled these obligations.
I have 2 more question, please bear with me. a common friend told me that my husband is now studying nursing. he said, he´ll be applying as a nurse in canada in case their first plan of sponsoring him fails, and that would mean after 3 years from October 2007. my question is: what is the effect of the remark "untrustworthy" on his denied refugee application last Sept. 2007 on his plan of securing a future job there? will he be able to secure a tourist or working visa easily? and was there a time restriction for a previously denied applicant to secure another visa after he was asked to leave canada?
second question is: this girl will be giving birth or has given birth already this month. and she planned to spend her maternity leave here with my husband. was there any way i could prevent her from going here? can she really go out of canada during the time her PR card is supposed to come out? my husband won´t give me her full name for fear of jeoparding the girl´s PR applications and be deported instead. Please shed some light on this PR thing.
Awaiting for your valuable responses. Thank you very much.
[28-03-2008,03:40]
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Mesh |
i see.... (in reply to: Sponsoring a Husband)
i never thought u´d be from Philippines...i am from Philippines too..bec your husband applied for a refugee...(very seldom case), unless threatened.
no questions about your ´unconditional love´. so what u mean to say is u want to prevent them from meeting again? like ban to your husband traveling to Canada, and vice versa to the other girl?
u have no control of the girl´s in and out. and if u have strong case to let her out of canada, that would mean togetherness of ur husband with her.
if u keep filing case againts ur husband, he will have difficulty ironing out his papers then.
if the canadian embassy learns about his fake refugee claim before, he might be banned from entering canada again.
i wish u peace of mind.
more advices here please...
[28-03-2008,12:23]
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Anonymous |
where? (in reply to: Sponsoring a Husband)
where in canada is the girl?
[28-03-2008,12:27]
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Anonymous |
(in reply to: Sponsoring a Husband)
Hello all,
My husband and i live in Egypt. We JUST sent the application for me to sponsor him.
We currently are waiting for our apartment to be constructed in order to live together. We applied early (before living together formally) so that the process can finish before a certain date i need to be back in canada (to do my masters).
Does anyone know if not living together will affect my application?? We ARE married, but certain circumstances have stopped us from being able to live together until August.
What do you think??
[29-03-2008,10:07]
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Nancy |
i see...& where (in reply to: Sponsoring a Husband)
in response to "i see..."
Thank you, kabayan. Where in Canada are you based? You´re right, I don´t want their evil plans to succeed. You gave me an idea on how to stop them from being together again. I think I have to try my luck with submitting my complaint letter to the Canadian Embassy here in the Philippines. After that, it´s all up to the Canadian embassy if they will let a liar and a cheat into their country. And if that girl really wants to go here, I might as well file a concubinage case against the two of them. That will definitely put an end to my husband´s dream of going back to Canada. They can´t be together in the Philippines ´coz the girl has a husband here and is already outraged by what she had done.
in response to "where"
According to my husband, the girl works as a supervisor at a Shopper´s Drug Mart in Vancouver, i just don´t know what branch. She is 29 years old, maybe 30 years old by now.
[30-03-2008,07:03]
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Mesh |
80% (in reply to: Sponsoring a Husband)
i think, his records in Canada, (as refuge and was asked to leave last Oct) will be a big obstacle for his papers. but pls have the nerve to submit that complaint to the embassy there...it will load to his burden and desperation to be with his affair.
i am from Toronto.
i am convinced that the baby is not your husbands. let him go, but make a fair vengeance to what he has done, no respect was left for you after all.
Pray for yourself instead. Everything doesnt pass before Gods eye unnoticed.
[30-03-2008,18:36]
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"i see" where, & vengeance.. |
(in reply to: Sponsoring a Husband)
when you are hurt, it is natural to lash out. I would strongly urge you to let the rules and the facts do their work. Believe it or not, 10 years from now, your sabotage efforts will not feel very good.
And if it is not his baby - who cares. That is his nightmare with CIC. All you need to concern yourself with is protecting your integrity.
[30-03-2008,20:28]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: Sponsoring a Husband)
i respect your love to ur husband...
and i strongly agree to Sharon´s compassionate yet practical opinions...
after submitting the complaint...LET HIM GO!
[30-03-2008,22:54]
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vengeance |
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