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Here is my question... Ok so I married this crazy asshole and was sponsoring him. I cancelled the sponsorship this month and he got a denial letter yesterday. Well needless to say he is going crazy. The thing is that the letter didn`t say "you are deported" it said "Please leave the country immediatly or you will be persecuted". So this crazy man is planning on ignoring the letter. I already called my local police and there is nothing that they?ll do. My question is: what will happen if he disregards the letter??
Thanks.
[30-04-2009,00:27]
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Jess |
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(in reply to: Here is my question... Ok so I married this c...)
Whoa Jess
You married this "crazy asshole", sponsored this "crazy asshole", withdrew the sponsorship of this "crazy asshole" and want to punish this "crazy asshole".
Love Hurts.
I am assuming that he has overstayed his Visitor Status and that is why he got that form letter.
You may want revenge from this "crazy asshole" but CBSA does not have sufficient staff to go after the "crazy asshole".
There is no option to force CBSA to act because the rules are being followed.
At one time this "crazy asshole" was a fun loving, handsome, loving, future partner.
Remember it takes two to fight and just maybe some of the problems in your relationship could possibly be your fault for your habit of calling others names.
Love is Blind we learn from our Mistakes.
Focus on what you have learned so the next time you will not end up calling your next husband a "crazy asshole".
Roy
www.cvimmigration.com
[30-04-2009,08:37]
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Roy |
(in reply to: Here is my question... Ok so I married this c...)
Hej jess
Is not your F..beep..n bisnes if he will leave the country or not
leave the man alone you F..beep..n I.D.I.O.T.
[30-04-2009,13:18]
[***.226.94.111]
stavrimacoku |
(in reply to: Here is my question... Ok so I married this c...)
interesting responses from the men around here.
if you woke up and discovered you were married to a monster, you would not be the first. Hopefully your cancellation was based on more than just revenge for a fight. To have a change of heart and turn the process around would be extremely difficult at this point. CIC are not marriage counsellors.
I can appreciate your concern about what might happen to him. You have been responsible for him this entire time and to turn it off as stavibaby suggests is not rational. The cancellation letter and denial notice ends your legal responsibility with CIC - what happens now is between hubby and the Canadian government.
Besides starting divorce proceedings, I would suggest you make sure you are safe just in case hubby is revengeful or wildly angry. It is going to take a while for him to be formally forced out of the country. Let´s hope he leaves on his own accord and does it peacefully.
[30-04-2009,14:04]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: Here is my question... Ok so I married this c...)
Lol, you are jokes Roy, thanks for the tips! I will definitely try not to make the same mistakes the second time around. ;)
Stav, learn how to write properly. :) AND it
is my business if he stays because he is mentally unstable, he has stalked me before, is a drug addict and I´m afraid for my child and me ok??
Thanks Sharon, yes my concerned is that we´ve been seperated for a year and he´s been diagnosed with psychosis and the psychiatrist that has seen him has told me that me and my family should go as far as moving from our homes because he is mentally unstable. I don´t know if it would be helpful to let immigration know about this, because I want him to leave, not out of revenge but because the psychiatrist really freaked me out. Thanks a lot for your answer! And yes, the divorce is well on its way.
[30-04-2009,15:12]
[**.95.126.144]
Jess |
(in reply to: Here is my question... Ok so I married this c...)
If a doctor state that he is mentally ill , it would be very hard to get him deported , CBSA has to ensure the safety of the people sent back.
Police can not judge someone on mere intent,and start believing everything coming from your side and act on the ground of it.
i don t know you , i don t know your story , but what would be your reaction or what would you do if your husband was a Canadian citizen?
[30-04-2009,17:08]
[**.221.19.69]
QC4ever |
(in reply to: Here is my question... Ok so I married this c...)
WOW !! Jess can write english
[30-04-2009,17:37]
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stavrimacoku |
(in reply to: Here is my question... Ok so I married this c...)
I would make sure the police know you are afraid. I would also move - as frustrating as that is. better safe than stubborn.
[01-05-2009,03:08]
[***.20.116.15]
Sharon |
(in reply to: Here is my question... Ok so I married this c...)
Women what happened to the "asshole" part? You did refer to your HUSBAND as a "crazy asshole"?
Either you married him for better or worse or you lied! If a man called his wife a "crazy asshole" I would hope women everywhere would jump all over that comment.
For some reasons Jess I feel you changed your posting to imply now he is mentally ill. I being a man has little to do with my response that follows.
Ladies having no compassion for a sick man/husband whether Physically sick or Mentally Ill is wrong.
I can not get over the fact that "crazy asshole" is a term that should never be used to describe anyone suffering from any mental illness. Even if he is a man!
Sharon shame on you for painting all men with the same brush "interesting responses from the men around here"!!!!!!
Sharon U handed Jess an avenue I feel strongly she did not deserve. Lets turn this into a sexist argument how women never abuse their partners. Come on Sharon.
Jess used the term "crazy asshole" which is a term for a no good, lazy, good for nothing, money grapping, stupid idea chasing, smelly, bumkin!!!!!
CRAZY ASSHOLE is not a term to describe any friend, lover or husband or former friend, lover or husband suffering from mental illness!
A man´s point of view. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Roy
www.cvimmigration.com
[01-05-2009,08:48]
[**.55.216.174]
Roy |
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I´m not done this really has hit a raw nerve!!!!!
The psychiatrist should have his license to practice medice revoked.
Any person who is a danger to themselves or others is to be committed but the psychiatrist let the crazy man/asshole walk out of his office. The former loving husband would not have medical coverage because Jess never said he was stage one approved.
Here is Jess quote "psychiatrist that has seen him has told me that me and my family should go as far as moving from our homes because he is mentally unstable".
WE ARE ALL A LITTLE CRAZY AND SOOOOO CLOSE TO INSANITY!
I can not accept how drastically the posting from Jess changed when Sharon made Jess the poor little abused princess in the pink frilly dress.
Before Sharon´s response to my response & stavrimacoku response who I do not consider in the same gender Jess´s loving partner who she married and sponsored was a crazy man or a crazy asshole.
WOMEN all men are not stavrimacoku, LOL
Roy
www.cvimmigration.com
[01-05-2009,09:00]
[**.55.216.174]
Roy |
(in reply to: Here is my question... Ok so I married this c...)
so, she used asshole in anger. I have called my ex similar things when he was behaving in an unreasonable fashion. That does not justify the lecture and cheap shots this woman has been getting.
Roy, we will discuss this at a later time but obviously you are not fully aware of how difficult it is for someone to be committed against their will with psychiatric concerns.
Why don´t we simply answer her questions and skip the sideline lectures when we have no idea of the true situation. If this situation is legitimate and this person is genuinely afraid for her safety, we have just told her she deserves what she gets. Sorry, I can´t accept that.
[01-05-2009,10:46]
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Sharon |
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