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Subject: Husband still in Morocco
  HI Sharon , just to let you know my husband and i both have been keeping in contact everynight since we met back in 2004 we got to know about each other alot since we srated talking vis Yahoo Messanger , my husband asked me back in July or August to marry him and we didn´t marry till 2005 in December , ( i was there 2 weeks ) we did all the procisures any everythging to get married ( we married in Morocco , my choice ) it took a long time to get everything done but we finally married December 9 2005 a few houtrs before i had to leave to come back home , but before i was to come home we tried to get my ticket changed so i could stay longer with no luck , so i returned home and started the sponcership to get him here we did everyhing by the book n the rules , he had his interview and was refused because of our ages and a few other things , so i appealed it and lost the appeal too , i am up to my wits end because what they have been saying is not true , my husband and i we both very honest with everything,we never lied about anything , but they keep saying he only married me to get status here in Canada , this is why i have been writing to seek help , i ned my husband as we re both suffering
Laurie

[19-06-2009,18:26]
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Laurie
(in reply to: Husband still in Morocco)
Lost Alternate Dispute Resolution or Full Appeal?

Roy
www.cvimmigration.com

[19-06-2009,18:42]
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Roy
(in reply to: Husband still in Morocco)
have you been back to Morocco since? Does he qualify to come on his own merits - that may be another way to get this done.

If you are a citizen, you may also consider spending a year over there and sponsoring him while you are out of the country to show the relationship is more permanent.

That is a very long time for you both to be living separately. Wish there was an instant solution.

[19-06-2009,19:02]
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Sharon
Husband still in Morocco (in reply to: Husband still in Morocco)
HI Sharon
I did do the appeal thing but lost , because they said my husbands english wasn´t good enough , and because i am older than him , and they said said because im older than him they don´t beleive we want children together , n yes i have been back since i was there last year for month with him and i found it very hard to leave him n come back home , ever since i have been hope i have a a nervous breakdown couldn´t work for a few months along with my illness i have also , and we still keep in contact everynight on msn Messanger and we have our web cams going also , but the hardest part is when he has to go because the cafe he goes to closes and when hes gone all i do is cry for him , and i also do have over 400 pictures plus my weding pictures Laurie

[19-06-2009,20:21]
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Laurie
(in reply to: Husband still in Morocco)
You may have to consider moving there to be with him. Unless there is some dramatic change in the facts, CIC will not look at another application after an unsuccessful appeal.

Going in to an appeal scenario without professional assistance is a tricky thing to do.

I wish there was some good news that I could give you. Again, can he come on his own merits as a skilled worker?

Perhaps Roy may have some suggestions.


[19-06-2009,20:42]
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Sharon
Husband still in Morocco (in reply to: Husband still in Morocco)
HI Sharon i wish there was away i could send you what was sid in the appeal because everytime i read it i see discrimination towards him and he has not done anything wrong , just being honest .... this is why im so frusterated Laurie

[19-06-2009,21:08]
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Laurie
(in reply to: Husband still in Morocco)
You and I can debate what you did right or wrong forever and it will not change anything. Many before you and your husband have spoiled it for everyone. It is easier and better for CIC to believe the worst that try to understand the truth.

Morroco may have been your choice for a wedding but the truth is also that your husband would never have been granted a tourist visa to come to Canada and marry you. So CIC will through your choice of wedding location out the window.

The appeal is over and the chances of you getting someone to change their mind is very very very small - if not impossible. It is better to focus on what you can do in the face of the reality you find yourself.

If he does not have the skills or language to come on his own, I would consider going to live with him for a year - maybe two and then try again.

Which is more important, being with him or your address.

[19-06-2009,21:33]
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Sharon
Husband still in Morocco (in reply to: Husband still in Morocco)
HI Sharon
im so sorry if im coming on like being an idiot , but i do need my husband and yes i just talked to him about 5 mins ago before he left the cafe and i told him what you have said about a work visa if he can get one , but if he did would or could he apply to stay ????/
Laurie

[19-06-2009,21:41]
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Laurie
(in reply to: Husband still in Morocco)
if he is admitted for a year under a work permit he can apply to stay as a skilled worker. He has to meet requirements but it is definitely an option. now, the BIG problem will be...convincing CIC that he would return home at the completion of his work permit. That is the deal - so let´s not get to excited just yet.

start looking at cic.gc.ca skilled worker applications or temporary work permits.

What does he do for work? how is his english or better... how is his french? If it is good, would you be willing to live in Quebec? What is his training.

The longer you sit and debate whether you were treated fairly by the sponsorship appeal process the longer you are going to be living apart. It is time for Plan B or C or D.


[19-06-2009,22:29]
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Sharon
(in reply to: Husband still in Morocco)
Is it hard for you to ask Morocco to give you longer-term visa (1-2 year long) so you could go there and be with him? He can apply for work permit or anything else, and most likely will be rejected since CIC can easily put 2 and 2 together and see through your ploy to get him in. Don´t forget that the few few Canadians captured with explosives crossing from Canada into the US (during Clinton administration) were Moroccans. They planned to bomb LA airport and are now serving 20 years to life in US Federal prison. There are numerous examples of Moroccan al-Quaeda operatives; these are probably some of the reasons to suspect an unknown Moroccan male. The fact that you are OLD and past child-bearing years, while your Moroccan is young, virile and likely candidate for terror plots makes things worse for you. If you are truly in love, what does it matter where you live? Why can´t you move to Morocco? Why do you insist on bringing him here? Afterall, Morocco has better climate and better access to fruits and exotic foods! Are you aware that there are some German women who, when faced with probs bringing their foreign husbands into germany, move to the 3rd world countries and live there until the marriage falls apart (which is very very likely to happen once the cultural aspects of behavior conflict) and then move back to Germany (with any offspring they created). Please seriously explore moving there. I am presuming that your Moroccan has good education and is well settled in life there. If he is ill-educated and is seeing Canada as a savior, you might indeed be the vehicle to get him here. Please think through these ideas. And tell me why is your English so bad? Are you even a native-born Anglo-Canadian? I am not picking on your writing skills but they are very poor, to say the least!
[20-06-2009,15:15]
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Helper
Husband still in Morocco (in reply to: Husband still in Morocco)
HI Sharon
Just to let you know my husband has a good job in Morocoo , he works in Marketing Sales ..... he also has collage n universaity

[21-06-2009,23:20]
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Laurie


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