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Hello
I was wondering if anyone would help me! I will just try and give it to you in point form.I am a canidan citizen, born in Canada. I am 24 years old. My new husband is 24 as well.
-I met my husband while he was living LEGALLY in Canada.
-He was here with his mother,father and brother from CHILE. They came and applied for Refugee status 9 years ago. They were denied. They then applied for other cases over the next several years. They were working and renewing work permits during this time.
-When we met he was very upfront about his status, or lack of. We were planning to go to Vegas this past New Year´s,(2010) and get married. Unfortunately this past August,(2009)the family received a letter stating they had reached a decision on there case.
-They went downtown in September(2009) to hear the decision. The decision was the family had to leave in 3 months. By December 5th,2009.
-In November of 2009 we were married. We had a small wedding at a justice of the peace. I am from Nova Scotia and live in Calgary so we only had 2 of our friends attending. We plan to have our "real" wedding, after my husband comes home to Canada.
We had been living together for over a year with his parents. We had our own place with a lease with both of our names on it from August 2009-December 2009 when he left. I still live in the same place.
-We opened a joint bank account in December just before he left.
We have been putting small amounts of money back and forth into it.
-We have taken a few small trips together,(while he ws still living here) Banff. RedDeer. We have pictures from those trips and other pictures from summer and at home with our cat. I read on the internet you need to have 300 pictures of the two of us together...is this true? We do not have that many pictures BY FAR! :(
-I have not filled the application as of yet. (today is January 6/2010)
I am waiting until I have 2 phone bills that show us talking on a daily basis. This month that he has been gone so far we have not talked a lot. Only about 5 times on the phone. His family, all 8 of them now live in one house, with one phone and a bad internet connection. I am saving all of our msn conversations and emails. He is hooking up his own phone line. Soon we will be able to talk EVERY day. That is the phone bill I would like to include in the application.
I am sorry this is such a long submission. I am just feeling very lost and scared! People are telling me because of the history. ( His family case being denied) that the government is going to think that we have a fake marriage. Also the fact that I only have so many pictures.(not the 300 required...I have maybe 30-40) I talked to my family, my boss and coworkers they all said they would write a report stating that they think we are really in love. Also my family doctor is not in Calgary(I am from Nova Scotia) but we did go to a clinic several times together to see the same Dr. Should I ask him for a statement? If there is ANY impute or in site that anyone may have please help. I miss my husband very much. I am lost without him.
I printed off some of the application...I am lost! I will have to say very overwhelmed. We can not afford a laywer to help us!
[06-01-2010,16:01]
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Very scared & worried :( |
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(in reply to: Questions with sponsorship application !!)
What is in a name?
very scared and worried :(
That shows to me that your a negative person and expect being refused, so why apply at all?
You claim your in a real relationship....so prove it!
COMMON SENSE GIRL
300 photos of the two of you only in the picture with him hugging you and you leaning into him will prove nothing.
Ten relationship photos with him showing respect for you and the two of you clearly showing that you both have a bond are worth far more.
Web cam photos will eliminate a huge expense of phone bills. Look to telephone plans from companies like Comwave, Primus etc. Or better still Babatel phone cards which you can recharge via the internet and print the frequency and duration of calls.
Anything that shows you have been a couple is quality evidence.
He will need to ask (ask) for authorization to return. Read the manuals and this it will help.
http://www.cvimmigration.com/authorization-to-return-to-canada.html
Roy
[07-01-2010,07:22]
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Roy |
Questions with sponsorship application (in reply to: Questions with sponsorship application !!)
Hi,
I think you should apply immediately using applications forms from cpc mississauga ( sponsorship spouse).
Your marriage is legal and it will take 30- 40 days till you will find the answer.
Your husband will be for sure aproved to join you in Canada
as soon as possible. Of course if it is not something illegal in his actions you do not know about .
I know very well the procedures about sponsorship as my husband ( canadian citizen) and I ( permanent resident Canada) try to sponsor my mother ( 86 years old ) to join us in Canada.
So good luck and use the informations for sponsorship application from CPC Mississauga : www.cic.gc.ca
[08-01-2010,06:48]
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anca |
Worry not... there Is always faith and hope (in reply to: Questions with sponsorship application !!)
Y´know, the more I read these discussion posts, the more I think there really is no 1 way to go about proving you´re relationship and ensuring a positive outcome. Who knows if the person processing the app. is in a bad mood the day they come across yours and just because they feel crappy, it influences how they perceive your information, etc.. ... result: we are not convinced, please provide more proof, blah blah...
I don´t see how you can take pics showing respect for each other, etc.. that are somehow more "genuine" than casual pics of the two of you doing things you enjoy?? But okay...
And really, nowadays, who can afford a landline with which to call International so a record is available? And every technology is fallible...records get lost, data too if you rely on computers (Grrr...can´t salvage lost Skype calls--many, Many calls ´tween me and my luv; both computers crashed--but what to do? crap happens! CIC has to realize that--technology is flawed!! and screw ´em if they don´t! I´ll gather affidavits from every SINGLE person I know who has heard me go on and on about my "love" for the past year and a half!) sorry about my l´il rant :(
Anyway, try not to stress too much. What I read in the sponsorship app. is only a few photos are necessary--where´d you get 300? Which Cdn gov´t employee has the time (or would even "bother") to pour over 300 pictures? Uhh, we´re talking about GOV´T employees here...who take extra long lunches, take FULL advantage of paid vacation, don´t ever stay past 4:30, esp. if they serve the public (Ha!)... get the picture? No one wants to go thru that many pictures!
As far as records of communication, just keep whatever documents you have(and try to protect them! in my case, to "backup" our skype calls, sent it to "Him", my comp. crashed, lost my records;...then His harddrive froze/crashed and we both lost them! Not goood...no more records! and he calls me using int´l cards...how to prove? *shrug*).
How long did you date before you were married? Any way to show this? Again, it might depend on the open mindedness of the person processing your particular appl.. For me, could be interpreted 2 ways. Either, knowing he might have to leave and desperate to hang on to him, you decide to marry so he at least has a chance to return. Understandable... you want to be together. The other way, he knows he has to leave and again, desperate to stay, convinces you to get married to ensure his return (even if fraught with its own challenges)...see?
Still, a 50/50 chance I think... but if you can somehow prove you had a solid relationship prior to all the deportation stuff, maybe you have a better shot. If people around you know a lot of details about your relationship (ie. women esp. like to bombard their friends, family, etc. with anecdotes about their "loves"...what he says, the cute things he does, etc.. so why not use sworn statements, affidavits or whatever? Does the gov´t really believe "everyone" can be lying? really? its the gov´t who requires more common sense here...
Chin up! You just have to have faith...
[08-01-2010,16:17]
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writerlychik |
(in reply to: Questions with sponsorship application !!)
as far as disrespectful pix go: this is usually centered around explicit cheap emotion (including Kama Sutra positions and so on). There was indeed a case when the CIC employee was subjected to near porn versions of images, the intention I am sure was to show intimacy of the couple (what can be more genuine!).
[08-01-2010,17:50]
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misery |
sponsor (in reply to: Questions with sponsorship application !!)
My elder brother [age 30] will get permanent residency permit middle of the 2010 in Manitoba in Canada. I am 24 years his brother. Can he do sponsor for me? If he can when? And how time will take? Please tell me.
shamim
[11-02-2010,16:55]
[***.72.235.206]
golam mostafa |
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