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Subject: in reply to: Mary's Case... Is it a Serious Enough
  Hoop...Jesus!!! She must have upset you to. Really upset you!

i thought i was losing my mind, i actually questioned myself and thought am i in the wrong!!!! Thatís what happens when you have been abused for so long...

i have a great fiancť now and my life is finally good, (why did i have to meet him in Canada!!!!) my only problem is the mistakes i previously made I havenít been in any trouble for the past 2 years (it was the 3 years before that!) i was never in trouble before 24 that for anything!!! i just hope i am allowed to stay and keep my family together.

[05-02-2010,17:13]
[**.146.174.75]
Mary
(in reply to: in reply to: Mary's Case... Is it a Serious Enough)
I just turned my computer off and then i had to put it on again.

Look sharon must be a good person if she spends time helping people, even if she doesn´t have a life she makes time for people who dont even pay her.

i can´t be horrible to people even if they are to me!

maybe sharon was just having a bad day and took it out on me.

[05-02-2010,17:29]
[**.146.174.75]
Mary
(in reply to: in reply to: Mary's Case... Is it a Serious Enough)
Actually
I would think it is more of a case of you refusing to realize just how bad of a pickle you are in.

Hire an experienced consultant and stop looking for people to agree with you about how unfair it is that you are in a self created situation.

Many of us here on the forums have been out of status and have had issues to deal with, the difference is we have dealt with them.

The time is to stop feeling sorry for yourself and start taking steps to address it.

Going on about on this forum is just time wasted that you do not have to waste.

[05-02-2010,18:46]
[**.66.6.96]
Dawzz
(in reply to: in reply to: Mary's Case... Is it a Serious Enough)

O m g.... i have done plenty of things to help my situation, i had already hired a lawyer and have done my own submissions as well, I was only ever looking for ´extra´ help or advise... I didn´t come on this forum for pity... If I had wanted pity I would have gone to my friend! GET IT!!!
I spent a long time writing that letter and was hoping that people on this forum would read it (If they wanted to Ďchoiceí!), on the understanding that I have a criminal record but give there advise on whether (after reading my letter) they thought (((((I)))) may have a chance at being granted the TRP, which is for people who like myself have a criminal record or a medical issue.
I am fully aware that my criminal record is ´not good´ but there are a lot worse situations. People apply for these TRP´S when they have assault charges and for using weapons etc...I have never hurt an individual or ever used a weapon of any kind.
I wanted statistics. Basically I wanted people to read my letter and give an answer based on their own individual thoughts.
example´s someone could say : they donít think my trp would be granted because my record is to bad or they could say : yes they think based on my situation and there has been a considerable amount of time since offences etc and my children would be caused stress - that I would be granted on the basis only!
This was the kind of info I wanted, I have already done everything i was asked to do and given all the info that I was asked to give. Just a simple yes or no from people was all i wanted.
Iím 28 I can adapt again to life back in England; I could even handle being away from the one man that loved me! But my poor kids will be affected; my youngest daughter is 3 months old she will grow up without her father.......... (I canít take back what I did) that is impossible!!! My life is in the hands of an immigration officer. I just want them to understand my kids and just give one chance and all of this is in my original letter that I posted on line!

So yea I came on this site to see what people would say, yes or noís on my individual case. Cos that is what it is coming down to in a few weeks a yes or a no? I wanted to see what the average person would say...yes or no.

Thank you anyway!

[05-02-2010,20:02]
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Mary
(in reply to: in reply to: Mary's Case... Is it a Serious Enough)
I have missed most of this exchange today - contrary to popular opinion, I have a life, a job, friends, responsiblities and I don´t need this forum for companionship.

Arguing with people after asking an opinion on a set of facts is not really asking an opinion.

I appreciate your desperation, but nobody here is CIC or a lawyer and nobody here is going to hear your case. We are basing our comments on our experience. I am sorry that it is not necessarily the answer you are looking for.

Is it no likely that CIC will look at your fiance and say - if you love this lady - go to the UK with her and the kids so you can be all together. Situation solved - law is upheld etc. etc. etc. That is more likely the answer you might get rather than CIC suspending all its regulations to let you stay.

[05-02-2010,22:52]
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Sharon
(in reply to: in reply to: Mary's Case... Is it a Serious Enough)
Drama Queen.


[06-02-2010,02:55]
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Dawzz
see! (in reply to: in reply to: Mary's Case... Is it a Serious Enough)
AND SO I Prove my point!
[06-02-2010,03:12]
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Mary
(in reply to: in reply to: Mary's Case... Is it a Serious Enough)
Yes indeed you do :)

See you on the other forums :)

[06-02-2010,04:51]
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Dawzz
opera (in reply to: in reply to: Mary's Case... Is it a Serious Enough)
Don´t stop the soap opera now, I was just getting into it!!!
[06-02-2010,08:16]
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john
(in reply to: in reply to: Mary's Case... Is it a Serious Enough)
´I wanted to see what the average person would say...yes or no.´

no.


[06-02-2010,15:32]
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Sharon
Madness (in reply to: in reply to: Mary's Case... Is it a Serious Enough)
ALL evil twats you are!!!!

You´ve all said that you have been in immigration situations in the past, well is this the way you would have wanted to be treated when you were having a difficult time.

I came on this site for help and have constantly had to reply to mean e-mails that most of you have sent, mostly from fat Sharon, you are fat arenít you Sharon?

All you people do is come on this site cos you have nothing better to do, I know I usually wouldn´t have time as I have a life, whereas this seems to be what most of you do with your life and upset people who may lose their family...
Total shame on you all, except Richard heís the only person who understood my real problem.

You donít have to answer this but, just take a minute( the mean people) and look at your lives are they happy cos i truly donít believe people like you guys could be happy when youíre so mean, and that is a fact. SAD!!!

I CAN´T BELIEVE that someone comes on this site for help and this is what happens. So yea... think about it, are you sad pathetic people with no life......i bet you are. I bet Sharon is ugly to, normally that wouldn´t matter cos there are some unfortunate ugly people in the world but in Sharonís case she takes it out on other people.

I wonít be looking on this site ever again, so any replies are for your sad selves, bunch of meanies!!!
I donít give a crxp what any of you say because I know the truth and that that I made a few mistakes but other than that I am a very good person and Iím not having any of you abusers say otherwise, well mostly fatty Sharon!!!


[06-02-2010,17:03]
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Mary