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I am a mother of 2 from my hubby that is working in Camrose since June 2009.My hubby is very hard working,responsible and loving.He will do everything to provide us good life.
Unfortunately,there are some people who are trying to make our family breaks. A b%#%*&! who´s trying to steal him from us.
I wanted to save my marriage by following my hubby.
I need help.Please advice.Thanks
[22-03-2010,17:02]
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desperate housewife |
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(in reply to: desperate housewife)
unfortunately, the only person that can save your marriage is your hubby.
Ask him to invite you for a visit, ask him to come home, ask him to honour his wedding vows...
[22-03-2010,17:56]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: desperate housewife)
You are right.Thanks Sharon.
[23-03-2010,02:27]
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desperate housewife |
private investigator or private concern citizen (in reply to: desperate housewife)
I think I am dying not to know what´s really going on.
I am really hopeless,I wanted to move on and think that time will come he will come back.
I have some friends in this situation and I am trying to help them by finding out the truth.
I hope somebody could help me too.
I am sorry,I am really desperate.I love my kids as much as I love my hubby.Whatever it is,I think I have the right to know.Help,anyone?Thanks
[28-03-2010,11:02]
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SHEILA |
(in reply to: desperate housewife)
Without going into detail, please know that I have walked a few miles in your shoes at one point in my life and have emerged out the other end stronger and happier.
Control your panic. Are you willing to continue a relationship with your hubby if he is cheating? If yes... then there is nothing more to ask him about. If no... you need to clarify in your mind what is the line in the sand for you. If ´sorry´ is enough to make it all better, then I would suggest you might need to determine what sort of proof he will need to provide you every day that he is committed to your relationship, because honey... every day you are going to wonder.
The best way to find out is to look him straight in the eye and ask him in a calm, quiet voice. Don´t even flinch. Sneaking around and playing detective will eat you alive. Regardless of the answer, be prepared to thank him for his honesty and end the questions or the reactions right there. You will get lied if he is afraid you are going to flip out. Don´t give him that satisfaction or that escape route.
If he says no, hopefully in a later conversation you can figure out a way to ask him to help you feel more secure. It´s not that you don´t trust him, it´s that the thought of losing him as a partner and father to your children is terrifying. There is a difference between needing affirmation because you love someone than not trusting them and wanting proof all the time. Make sense?
Shiela, whatever you do, please keep in mind that this situation you find yourself in has very little to do with you and what kind of woman you might be. He may try and play that line on you but don´t buy it. He is in 100% control of his choices and hopefully, he has made the right ones.
hope this helps
[28-03-2010,14:20]
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Sharon |
thanks again sharon (in reply to: desperate housewife)
Honestly speaking I really wanted to hear advices from people who had this kind of issue or by any chance knew what are my feelings now.A lot of people I know give advices that made me more confused.Sometimes,I tend to be alone and think things over.A lot of things had happened already and now,I am more sure that I wanted to fix this marriage while it´s not too late.I appreciate everything you told me Sharon.I am glad that somebody who didn´t even know me can tell me straight to my face what are the best thing to do.I really hope I can do it.Thanks again and God bless.Take care.
[29-03-2010,13:18]
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SHEILA |
(in reply to: desperate housewife)
hang on. you cannot ´fix this marriage´ on your own. The tragic truth is that it takes 2 people to fall in love and get married but it only takes 1 person to make it all end.
If BOTH OF YOU are not committed 110% to making the marriage work, you will be wasting your time and setting yourself up for endless heartache.
[29-03-2010,15:40]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: desperate housewife)
omg girls i have been through what you been throug i got married and gave him everting he wanted and helped him out when ever he felt down i was always there for him i love him and i still do but sad to say were divorced last year because some ugly B**** made him think that im bad and that im cheating on him and the only reason i got married to him is because for his money and know hes bagging me to get back with him and i really want to i love him but at the same time i dont want to because he broke my heart i have a kid from him and evertime i set with my kid and he talkes about hes dad 24/7 and loves hes dad i always say i should get back with him just for my child i will do anything for my baby
what do you girls think should i get back with him?
HELP GIRLS
girls what do u think should i get back with him or
[29-03-2010,22:36]
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SARA |
(in reply to: desperate housewife)
there is nothing you can DO other than be honest and see if he is interested. If not, there is absolutely zero point in trying to change his mind.
[30-03-2010,01:31]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: desperate housewife)
thx Sharon for the advice
[30-03-2010,20:00]
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SARA |
ur heart forgives but will u forget? (in reply to: desperate housewife)
Your are lucky Sara that you know the truth that what happened to you was merely because of wrong accusations.Don´t let others ruin your relationship with him and the family that you have. Just tell your husband to believe in you more than anybody else.
yes,i think you are right Sharon,it takes two to make this relationship to work.Now here´s my Q,what do u think is the best thing I should do? Leave him/no communication at all OR just be with him through email. we dont chat much as time difference kills us.Thanks in advance.
[31-03-2010,12:56]
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SHEILA |
