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I sponsered my hubyy from India . We were married by law and not my religion. He lived with us for one month but not like husband since we were not religiouly married. we helped him to get job and after getting job he keep delaying the marriage date. Now he wants a divorce. it is 7 moths now. Can i file a case against him and ask for deportation. Secondly we both wrote to immigration that we are religiously married by mistake. ie lie to immigration but we thought that he will not get visa so we lied.
I want to know whether this can be a valid reason to deport him. If so how much expanse it will cost us to take divorce and deporation procedure
[08-04-2005,15:30]
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annonymus |
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(in reply to: Divorce and PR)
Sounds like you´ve been fooled. Unfortunately though, there is no way that he can be deported unless he commits a major crime. You´re stuck as his sponsor (and will be in debt to the government if he goes on social assistance in the next three years).
Cases like this make me so mad because they cause legitimate immigration cases to take longer and people who have been married in good faith to be unduly scrutinized.
Serves you right for trying to outsmart the system.
[08-04-2005,15:54]
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Anonymous |
(in reply to: Divorce and PR)
Why were u not religiously married at the first place????
And please people like you should not mention MY India´s name with your stupid dirty work as it creates an awfully wrong image in the world community...grrrr.
[08-04-2005,16:11]
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Anonymous |
(in reply to: Divorce and PR)
And yes report to the nearest CIC office and follow their instructions to kick this guy out. Keep in mind you will have to prove all the fake evidence as fake, witnesses in the so called marriage pictures could help in testimony.
All this labour is the least punishment u can get.
[08-04-2005,16:23]
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Anonymous |
(in reply to: Divorce and PR)
just because of you guys it cause delay in other people immigration , you should,nt have lied to the dept , you should get him deported asap , tell the immigration authorties
[08-04-2005,16:33]
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Anonymous |
(in reply to: Divorce and PR)
This how you people let others to see Indians with a different eye. Why he could not stay with you as a husband, I am sure you people must trying to dominate him....You can not get him dported and if he will go on social welfare in next three years, you will be suffered better you must thought before you get married. Now it is too late.
[08-04-2005,17:52]
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Raj |
(in reply to: Divorce and PR)
SOME ARE SAYING YES AND SOME ARE SAYING NO.
SECONDLY WE ARE LEGALLY MARRIED AND NO FAKE DOCUMETNS WERE CREATED.
IS ANY BODY SURE WHAT COULD BE THE RESULT
[08-04-2005,18:18]
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annonymus |
(in reply to: Divorce and PR)
I do not think anyone on this forum understands the law enough to give you an accurate answer. I do know that fraudulent sponsorship documents (that is how it is sounding) can result in you being disallowed from every sponsoring someone again. I would strongly suggest you get the advice of a lawyer to protect your interests and your liability.
Unfortunatly, you situation has justified CIC´s approach to spousal sponsorship - that is why people are feeling angry. The consequences are long separations and extensive scrutiny.
[08-04-2005,18:42]
[***.181.198.246]
sharon |
(in reply to: Divorce and PR)
I told you that you can not force canadian Govt to deport him. Once he got PR on spousal sponsership, you and you only responsible for it. So just dont´t get fooled if some one say you can deport him. Just to co-op with situation now. I am again telling you that something is fishy between this spousal sponsership.
[08-04-2005,18:48]
[**.194.254.96]
Raj |
Certificate ?? (in reply to: Divorce and PR)
I think in the eyese of immigration, a legitimate marriage certificate ( like your marriage got registered in India infront of a first class mejistrate and local municipality issues a marriage certificate) is the only thing which matters. Religious marriage Vs. Legal marriage may make some diffrence to you personally but not to the immigration. So apply this criteria(and others like weather he lived as a husband or not) to your personal matters only and do not mix these with immigration, legal things.
Now, what was your original plan to bring this person from India? Were you in love , or forced by your traditional punjabi parents? or Did you or your family want a slave and now he is not behaving like a slave?
Please understand that this whole mess is created by you so stop blaming anyone else. You got to take care of it.
Divorce is always an option, revenge is not.
What is the legal validity of your marriage ? Do you have marriage certificate ? Where did you register your marriage in India ? take all details and documents and go to the nearest attorney office which pracitces family law as well as immigration law and seek their guidance to get a divorce and to disassociate with this person in all regards. There are state laws which says that if you have lived for certain period in a state, then you can file for divorce locally, even if you got married anywhere else. ( for CA it is 6 months I think). So do that. If you do not have any personal, emotional bonding left with this person or your business plan now failed as this person is no more your slave, then file for divorce. Path of revenge is messy and dirty and ultimately you will end up doing more harm to yourself and your lovedones than the worth of getting sadistic pleasure of out of his misery. Just leave him, get divorce and move on with your life.
and pledge for not doing this shitty mess again in life.
and if this mess was because of your old timer parents, divorce them as well or at least stop listening to their advice for all future personal matters.
[08-04-2005,19:05]
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Ron |
(in reply to: Divorce and PR)
Hi..What was the real reason that you wanted this man to come to Canada??..Did you love him???..What was the reason why you did not have a religous marriage when you were there in India..You should of had it then,,rather then to wait and want to have a religious marriage when he got here to Canada..I guess what you have wrote in your first post does make people think that you had sponsored this man threw means of a spousal sponsorship just so he could gain his addmission to Canada..What was your gain in all this??..It truly is a shame if you married this man for love..But if you married him for other reasons,,then it is truely a shame for all the other people who get married for love,,and get refused by a visa officer,,because the visa officer does not believe thier marriage is genuine because of the abuse of the system by persons who only want to gain thier addmission to Canada,,and not for love..
[08-04-2005,19:59]
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Anonymous |
(in reply to: Divorce and PR)
if I am reading this right... the marriage has not been consumated. Does that change things?
[08-04-2005,20:10]
[***.181.198.246]
sharon |
