tell it like it is brothers and sisters

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Subject: tell it like it is brothers and sisters
  I have one story wanna share to everyone.

Remebered about 3 years ago when I just moved to Nanaimo B.C to go to college and didn´t know anyone. I don´t have car, neither do I have some friends to carpool.

I missed the last transit bus when I jogging in seawall at night.Close to bus depot, one 20s years old girl (kind of cute, look like Rachel McAdams) tried to take a cab. I asked her where do you live? if we can share cab, forunately, we live so close to each other.

I told that girl, " I just moved from another country to Canada, I don´t have any really good friends, and are you just moved to Nanaimo? I´d really like to be your friend." She said she was touched by my honesty and urgency, and while we didn´t have a whole lot in common. I am an Asian, she is white, I am a guy, she is a girl. We did become friends in my community. I guess beucase of my urgency really started the ball rolling.

Although it doesn´t always work, starting off with an honest statement doesn´t hurt because friendships have to be honest---not brutal----just honest to qualify and to survive.
It´s just as same as immigrants who moved from another country.
You just need to be honesty and face the problem and ask for help.

any comment?












[24-09-2005,16:11]
[**.66.36.59]
departure bay
(in reply to: tell it like it is brothers and sisters)
Looks like laila-majnu story....
[24-09-2005,17:21]
[**.149.73.5]
Anonymous
(in reply to: tell it like it is brothers and sisters)
DB, whats wrong with you man, what the heck are you trying to say everytime you type in this forum, where on this world are you from. I really wonder whether people from your country is like this.

What, nobody is following Rita, only you are following right, crazy shit, why on this world did you type that Rita was battering Texas, fortunately, not much damage is done, so go clean the ditch inside your head, and stop creating crazy topics. Come on what did you try to say here, tell me,

[24-09-2005,18:54]
[**.149.73.5]
Anonymous
(in reply to: tell it like it is brothers and sisters)
he is jacking up right now i guess
[24-09-2005,18:58]
[***.25.33.220]
Anonymous
(in reply to: tell it like it is brothers and sisters)
hi DB.
many r jealous of you man.

[24-09-2005,19:25]
[**.242.95.19]
sara
(in reply to: tell it like it is brothers and sisters)
YES...so much jealousy surrounding DB.....if you hate DB so much why do you read his posts???? Kinda weird to me.

If you twist your arm behind your back and it hurts, you probably won´t twist your arm too many more times. You might twiat once or twice more to see if it really hurts. You will discover that is hurts almost every time.
Same thing here.....if you have read a few of DB´s posts and you hate them, DON´T READ ANY MORE!!!!! You read one and it seems weird so read a second one to see if it is weird, too. You might have even read a third one and you hate it. SO....once you have read three that you hate, just stop reading them. Don´t write negative posts to DB...just let it go. Be mature.

Problem solved...everyone happy.

Keep up the good work DB....many of us like your stories of life in Canada as seen from an immigrant´s point of view!

CHEERS!

[24-09-2005,19:31]
[**.244.235.25]
Rachunek
(in reply to: tell it like it is brothers and sisters)
who is Rachel McAdams by the way?

[24-09-2005,20:00]
[***.25.33.68]
Anonymous
(in reply to: tell it like it is brothers and sisters)
keep posting DB. They keep replying and leaving jack ass replies so keep it coming if it irritates them so much :D maybe they´ll go jump off a ledge!
[24-09-2005,21:09]
[**.26.89.84]
ejspet
(in reply to: tell it like it is brothers and sisters)
rachel mcadams is the chick in the movie "red eye".
[24-09-2005,22:08]
[**.35.201.52]
degen95
(in reply to: tell it like it is brothers and sisters)
It is extremely difficult for some ppl to adapt to a new society. There are a lot of imigrants who land in a foreign country unblessed- no friends, no relatives and no social skills to survive in a new culture. What DB is doing is a courageous thing, sharing what he did to blend in. Though not all of us use his "mercy friendship" technique, it tells there is a last resort that guarantees some success in acquiring friends. They might not be ur friends based on mutual interest, but they will be kind enough to teach you the skills so that you can make life long friends.

Those of you who wear such a myopic eyes and vomit venom against DB should at least apologize to him. DB, dont get discouraged by such comments.

[25-09-2005,15:14]
[**.24.94.225]
lazy tea MATE
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